Fixed it.
This boy will date whoever the fuck he wants.
What that boy doesn’t understand is the implication that someone should aspire to be in a partnership with someone else is bullshit, as if that partnership was integral to a full and happily lived life.
That kind of thinking engenders co-dependency and that shit is fucking oppressive, especially when it’s being fostered by emotionally manipulative turds like Mr. Boys Don’t Wanna Date Slutty Girls.
Protip, shaming dudes: No one needs to give a fuck what you think, and it’s none of your fucking business how others present themselves. If you’re under the impression that you’re surrounded by -insert sexist slur here-, then I guarantee the problem is entirely yours.
This “girls who have sex are incapable of respecting themselves” rhetoric that misogynists and slut-shamers like to throw around simultaneously amuses and infuriates me. It’s a pretty easy way of suppressing and controlling female sexuality, and it’s very effective: even my mum, who is a very intelligent and fairly liberal woman, likes to remind me that sleeping around is somehow intrinsically tied in to my sense of self-worth (i.e. a lack thereof).
However, I can pretty much guarantee that my sense of self-worth and self-respect are high enough that I have the confidence to fuck who I want, when I want to, as often as I want to, and own the hell out my own body. Brosef needs to pull his head out of his ass and realize the reason those “sluts” fuck other dudes but don’t want to fuck him is because he’s an anti-feminist dinkwad.
I think my favourite part about all this is the “Why don’t you understandddddddd?” comment, like snagging a dude is the only motivator ladies have for doing anything. As if night after night we’re all just sitting at home, hyperventilating, weeping, and asking our friends why this gem of a human won’t date us. In reality, we’re clearly all too busy slutting around and fucking everyone else to worry about that.
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01.19.12 @ 20:00
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